What will it be tonight....
Red lacey matching thong and bra? Black satin push up with stockings and suspenders? Frilly frenchies and a figure hugging corset? Or how about those daring crotcheless knickers and a peep hole bra?
OR
Would you really prefer to be tucked up in bed wearing your comfy Bridget Jones knickers, reading a Jane Austin novel fantasizing about Mark Darcy emerging from the water looking like some kind of 19th century SEX GOD.
Theres no bigger turn on than 'dressing to impress' in the bedroom and pleasing your man with what your mamma gave you. If you are wanting to spice the old sex life up and get him really hot under the collar, it's nothing a little fashion show in some of your best smalls can't fix. In addition, one of the bonuses of 'dressing up' is getting your lover to undress you bit-by-bit if you know what I'm saying...
But when we decide to give our partners a little extra treat, do we get a thrill from wearing our frillies as much as they do? It's a known fact that the majority of ladies wont shy away from going all out to buy nice clothes to make us look good. They say feeling confident in your appearance is key for making us feel like a total goddess. But does this apply to underwear too, do we want to look as irresistible underneath our clothes as we do with the outfits we wear day to day? Or in actual fact are we just lazy and only pull out the good stuff when you know you'l be getting the 'good stuff'...
I took to the streets of Guildford to find out how women really feel about sexy lingerie and if its purely for him or just as much for her....
A sales assistant in the underwear store 'Boux Avenue' said 'In here where I see a lot of different people and do a lot of bra fittings, some ladies bring their partners and then the men go round and choose what they like. The ladies then try it on and go 'I don't like that' all the red and the black stuff but most of the time they buy the lingerie for themselves to feel good.'
20 year old Natasha said 'If I have a man then I'l dress up for him but if I'm on my own i'l pretty much wear the worst underwear I can find aslong as I'm comfortable.'
34 year old Ana said 'I think wearing nice underwear is definitely for yourself and for your self esteem, like when you buy new clothes you feel better about yourself so you pull your posture better and feel sexier. It's definitely for your man as well because its obviously not a bad sight to see yourself in new underwear and definitely spices things up in the bedroom.'
26 year old Linda said 'I think it's important to dress up for your man I mean I use to do it all the time for example maids outfits, crotchless pants, anything. But I think looking sexy is really important and makes you feel good about yourself and who doesn't like to look hot.'
I think its safe to say that women get as much enjoyment playing dress up as much as our partners too. Even when wearing matching bra and pants you can't help but feel a sense of sensuality, this goes out for the singletons out their too. Single or taken - matching bra and pants is always a winner!
So ladies if you are in need of a confidence boost or feel that you are lacking that certain spark in your life, pop down to your local underwear store and invest in the best.... whether you are dressing for you OR for your man.
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